Friends & the new you

Ok so I was warned by the Psychiatrist that performed my evaluation & my friend that already had the sleeve that there is a 90% chance that I would lose friends in this process. I'm so naive I let their warning go in one ear & out of the other silly me. But really who would think that they would lose friends from making the decision to be healthy? Anyone who is smart that's who!

My brother asked a so called good friend to come to my house & help me with cleaning & stuff which she does & I am grateful however she also cooks a full course meal in my kitchen! Now my apartment is very small so the aroma of this meal filled all 4 rooms including the bathroom.

Now before she cooked this meal I told her that the doctor asked all family & friends to be supportive & not to eat & cook in front of me until I am comfortable with it ( like a week or so)
Then I snap & yell & she tells me I should have told her not to cook in my house. I'm thinking are you a complete idiot? I just told you not to eat In front of me so why would you cook a full course meal. I just had half my stomach removed knowing not to cook or eat in front of me should not be rocket science come on now.

Long story short she got pissed of at me ( the nerve) packed her stuff & disappeared into the night & I haven't heard from her since & guess what who cares! You don't need anyone around you that isn't going to be supportive. Dealing with all of these new changes are hard enough without shady spiteful friends in your circle.

So believe me you will lose friends but your going to lose weight too!! What's more important to you? I chose losing weight!! From 312 to my current weight 280 100 more til I reach my goal! But I can live with losing just 80 more lol

Let your haters be your motivators & Keep calm & lose weight 😁